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The Most Important Story We Ever Write Is Our Own!

You don’t see it coming when first met and fell in love, when you’d do anything for each other.


You'd laugh, you make plans, you have great sex, you'd feel seen and heard and could only imagine growing old together.

But along the way … it changed.

It didn’t happen overnight. Just piece by piece.
A small misunderstanding here. A harsh word there. A moment where you felt like you didn’t measure up.

You ask yourself over and over, Is it me? Am I the problem?

You’ve lost the confidence you used to have. The man you used to be, he was fun, cheeky, assertive.

The relationship doesn’t fall apart overnight. What happened is that both of you stopped showing up as your full selves where;
~Fear replaced honesty.
~Resentment replaced connection.
~And quiet shame replaced the love.

 

This is the quiet and tragic death of a marriage. But here’s the thing no one tells you:

 

It is possible to rebuild your sense of self after this.

 

First, we need to stop carrying the blame. It’s about putting down the sword and moving forwards not backwards.
Instead, you need to take this heartbreak and turn it into the most powerful fuel ever.

If you’re ready to stop pretending you’re fine and start rebuilding on your own terms. I work directly with men 1to1. I have some places open right now for men who are committed to change.

 

~It's not about therapy.

~ Or “fixing you" ~ Actually you’re not broken.
I do real, honest conversations about where you are now. You will gain perspective that there is away to start rebuilding your power and life.

👉 Click below to book a free call.

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What's Brotherhood Reboot?

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Hi I'm Charlie, I'm a certified Coach, my aim is to help men flip their life from struggle and pain to flow and passion.

 

When we face the big life challenges, the big ones like divorce, health issues, the loss of a loved then life can become chaotic and overwhelming. 

 

From the work I have been doing with clients and personally. I have come to see that the challenges we have are here to teach us. They guide us to;

1; Re-build our Mental and physical wellbeing 

2; Regain our sense of identity

3; And clear away "dead wood" so we can renew.

This process is a powerful process to strip us down and rebuild again stronger than before. It's very powerful but like any renewal process it involves patience and determination to face the issues that need to be processed.

My online coaching will help you learn the keys to not just survive, but thrive, 

You will...

- STOP living in fear and anger

- Quiet your inner critique

- Stop self numbing behaviour

- Let go of addictive coping strategies

- Gain momentum from small changes for real results

- Realise that you have the power for a full life.

Everyone faces challenges in life. You are not alone.

No one is immune.​ Each one of us is here for a reason, sometimes we just need a guide to help show you the way.

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The Code...

Brotherhood Reboot, was created to provide a roadmap  or process to men who are struggling or stuck in their life. The idea... to help you identify your unique gift then  the put in place the guardrails to keep you on track so you can live the life you want. 

 

As the founder Charlie knows all too well that the struggles life throws at us can become almost overwhelming. But every one has the potential for greatness, we often get way off track when we are chasing and disconnected from our true selves.

 

One of the ways to rediscover our purpose is through our values. Our four core values strongly influence our Code Of Brotherhood - for men this is a powerful book called 'The King The Warrior, The Magician and the Lover" by Robert Moore and Douglass Gilbert. You can read about them.

Success Stories

I started working with Charlie when I had little idea of where my life was going or even where I wanted it to go. My mind was full of endless scattered thoughts and constant brain chatter which left me unable to move forward in many areas of my life.

Charlie has an exceptional ability to ask the right questions and see where the blocks are. He enabled me to dig into all areas of my life and be truthful to myself about what needed changing to become my authentic self. He set weekly tasks to help me change my mindset and encouraged me to set short, medium and long term goals.

Fran Gilpin

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